mod·es·ty /ˈmɒdəsti/ Show Spelled[mod-uh-stee] Show IPA
–noun, plural -ties.
1. the quality of being modest; freedom from vanity, boastfulness, etc.
2. regard for decency of behavior, speech, dress, etc.
3. simplicity; moderation.
vir·tu·ous /ˈvɜrtʃuəs/ Show Spelled[vur-choo-uhs] Show IPA
–adjective
1. conforming to moral and ethical principles; morally excellent; upright: Lead a virtuous life.
2. chaste: a virtuous young person.
For Modesty to be your Virtue it must be your guidelines, not something you inflict on someone else. If you hold affliction on someone else you are making judgement, not holding virtue.
Why do you think your shard holds to the virtue of Modesty?