re·straint /rɪˈstreɪnt/ Show Spelled[ri-streynt] Show IPA
–noun
1. a restraining action or influence: freedom from restraint.
2. Sometimes, restraints. a means of or device for restraining, as a harness for the body.
3. the act of restraining, holding back, controlling, or checking.
4. the state or fact of being restrained; deprivation of liberty; confinement.
5. constraint or reserve in feelings, behavior, etc.
vir·tu·ous /ˈvɜrtʃuəs/ Show Spelled[vur-choo-uhs] Show IPA
–adjective
1. conforming to moral and ethical principles; morally excellent; upright: Lead a virtuous life.
2. chaste: a virtuous young person.
For Restraint to be your Virtue it must be your guidelines, not something you inflict on someone else. If you hold affliction on someone else you are making judgement, not holding virtue.
Why do you think your shard holds to the Virtue of Restraint?