...the tournament organiser broke the social contract first by deviating from expectations about how the event was going to be run.
It is highly delusional to think that the organizer(s) of this free event deviated from any reasonable expectations.
Hyperbole aside, you have not actually justified your position on this at all, much less explained why it is "delusional", highly or otherwise.
I think it's very clear that there was a general expectation that the event would be run in such a way as to allow all the teams a relatively even chance of winning. It seems obvious that a lot of people (if not everyone) signed up under this assumption, and I believe it is a reasonable one to make. If anything, this is made obvious by the large amount of complainants. Therefore, you have a social contract between the organisers and the players of "I will run this event fairly and to your expectations, and you will play in it".
Let's imagine for a minute that Scaredgirl had given Team Darkness an extra 50 cards in their vault, simply because she liked them and wanted to help them win. This is a clear violation of the same social contract, but under your reasoning, the players would be "delusional" or perhaps "unethical" to leave the game in protest of its unfairness.
It is also clear that the "Age of..." cards violated this assumption of an even playing field. As I said in my last post (maybe you missed that part, as it was in a footnote), they provided an arbitrary bonus to specific teams, but not others. This violated the principle that the only thing differentiating the teams were the elements they had to work with, and everything else was a choice or earned by the team.
There are two conditions that could have made them consistent with the assumption of a level playing field, but neither was true in this case. The first would have been if they were all played out over the course of the game (requiring the game to be at least 13 rounds long which seems unlikely), and the second would have been where the choice of round for each one was non-trivial (not the case, as teams could be eliminated before their Age appeared).
So, having established that, it is clear that protests against the event cards are perfectly reasonable reactions to their introduction. Whether this is a passive protest, as Mr Blonde initiated, or an implication that a player would not participate (as is, let's not forget, perfectly within their power to do so). The optimal response probably would have been a reasoned discussion but as far as I can tell that is exactly what the participants sought, in addition to their passive protest.
The community did not choose one of the options of the event card. The community chose to abandon the event card. It does not matter what the event card said; it matters that the community decided to abandon it. You cannot abandon a rule -- that's the same thing as breaking it.
In the United States, sometimes people make donations to charities. When an American citizen makes a donation of $1000 to certain charities, there is a law that says he is allowed to pay $1000 less dollars in taxes. Obviously donating to charity is an option, so if someone just pays the $1000 tax, that's fine.
Now: let's say an influential US citizen doesn't like the law. Well, he doesn't have to donate anything. He can make that choice. However, he ABSOLUTELY CAN NOT make a public speech about how he and all the employees in his company are not going to donate in such a way as to encourage other people in similar positions to also not donate.
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You're again drawing a false equivalence between passive refusal to use an advantage and deliberately breaking an explicit rule. You can attempt to justify your position by talking about unwritten laws as part of some social contract, but then you need to stop implying that it is equivalent to breaking a rule.
Furthermore, your analogy to the governmental rules on employers influencing their employees doesn't hold in this situation. What you're attempting to describe is a prohibition on coercion. I don't believe that MrBlonde engaged in any coercion at all. In fact, as QuantumT has said, it seems like he was actively trying to get people to make up their own mind and was very careful to state that if other members of his team wanted to they could continue to use the bonus.
Essentially the problem with your line of argument is twofold. Firstly, even if he had directly asked his teammates and other teams to take the same stand it is difficult to argue that this is inherently unethical because collective action can be a good thing if it addresses a problem effectively. It is like arguing that unions are unethical because they attempt to unify a workforce to negotiate with the employer, and that it is unfair because it upsets the employer's edge in negotiation. Secondly, your implicit assumption that MrBlonde's actions were coercive doesn't seem to hold, rendering the entire first point moot. It is difficult to argue that influencing opinion by taking a non-illegal, non-coercive stand is unethical.
You can suggest that breaking the social contract was in your opinion not appropriate, but as I have already pointed out I think it was a fairly reasonable response to the situation. You seem to be hung up on the inviolate sanctity of the tournament organiser's rule, but you seem to have missed that a game operates in the social context of all of its players as well as its organisers.
Secondly, you miss the point when you cite examples of things ScaredGirl could have done that would be egregiously unfair. The fact is that her "Age" cards were not unfair at all. They were completely within the realm of normal, to-be-expected possibilities. The only argument was whether or not they were balanced. Your example was of something unfair, not unbalanced. Of course doing something unfair would be a breach by ScaredGirl. Of course doing something unbalanced is not a breach. [...] The Age of Light card was not unfair. Whether it was unbalanced is irrelevant. But it was not unfair. And the actions undertaken are only acceptable when something is unfair.
Unfair and unbalanced. Are they the same? I think, as I explained above, that within the context of a game which people entered on the implicit assumption that it was going to be run in a balanced manner, that being unbalanced was a violation of that assumption and therefore considering it "unfair" is reasonable. Bear in mind that unfair in this context does not mean the mathematical bias towards one group or another, but in fact the introduction of arbitrary biases towards arbitrary teams.
The reason was to say: This card is unacceptable. <--- That statement, which all of you were making, is the problem. It is a false statement which you are NOT ALLOWED to make. By making it and making decisions based on it, you broke the rules.
You can declare such a thing to be "false" and "not allowed" all you like, but you need to provide reasoning, and so far I haven't seen a good argument that supports these outlandish statements. Also, you are yet again conflating the implicit social contract with the explicit written rules.
I absolutely am allowed to make that statement. If people aren't allowed to make these kinds of statements, then you have ABSOLUTELY no right to expect them to continue to participate.
I'll say it again to emphasize it, if you completely ignore what the participants want, you have no right whatsoever expect them to continue to participate.
You are absolutely 100% wrong.
The entire definition of a participant is someone who submits to the rules of an event. If he doesn't like it, he can leave. As the organizer I have a right to expect him to participate and follow the rules, or he can leave. I would be stupid to expect him to stay if I completely ignore what he wants, but that doesn't change what I just said: I have a right to expect him to participate and follow the rules.
You are trying to have it both ways. You are trying to have participants not leave, but stay and ignore the rules. That is not acceptable. If someone wanted to leave because of the Age cards, of course that would be acceptable.
Actually despite your protestations you are not actually providing the requisite reasoning to explain why an event organiser has any "rights" with respect to players participating. Bare assertion does not make someone else "100% wrong".
EDIT: I fully intend to stay well away from moderation actions in this thread as by involving myself in the discussion there would be an assumption of bias. However, you might be well advised to follow Memorystick's advice. He is not the first person to comment on your attitude - you are coming across to a number of other people as highly abrasive and overly personal. I'd like to think I have a thicker skin than that, but for your own sake I advise you to put in the extra mile as regards keeping this conversation civil.