Bluepriest, using stereotypes and generalizing does not aid your cause. Atheists (I belong to that group as I have not found a religion which I can 100% fully believe in and stand for, and thus I choose not to be affiliated with any at all) are divided. Every single one of us is an individual, just as every single theist is an individual. The difference being that atheists do not have a shared base of faith (eg: All Christians worship Christ, all Hindus believe in karma) which would mean that generalizing would be even less accurate.
If you wish for respect, give it and you shall receive it? (This goes for both sides of course).
Religion is a delicate subject and often people try to argue and convince people with firm stances that will not budge in any way (once again, both sides). Personally, I believe that you don't have to agree with a persons stance but that does not mean that the person lacks valid points. If an argument gets too off topic, it might be because people try to find common ground, or try to avoid it
And lastly: It is the Internet. And we are on a mystical/fantasy game site, not Christian Science Monitor. So people here are probably less prone to theism.