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Re: Responses to a few common arguments https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=9817.msg130178#msg130178
« Reply #36 on: August 03, 2010, 06:41:55 am »
For those who believe there is no reward or punishment in choosing a faith, does it boil down to just a personal preference then, like what flavor of ice cream you like?
At least to me what someone believes is not so important as why they believe it.

The pharisees were the religious leaders at the time of Jesus, in the religion he followed, yet He was generally pretty harsh on them because they were acting pious to impress people, not because they thought it was right (Matthew ch 6, among others. You can probably find references in any of the gospels)

I believe that someone who is earnestly seeking truth will find God, whether in this life or after it's end.

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Re: Responses to a few common arguments https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=9817.msg130254#msg130254
« Reply #37 on: August 03, 2010, 01:12:07 pm »
For those who believe in this path to heaven, why do you feel it is right over another path, such as Islam?  Is it the actions of the religion's followers or a reading of various holy books, or something else?

I honestly cant tell you anything more than personal convictions. Ive always been hardheaded. I believe what I want to believe, and I never cared who thought otherwise. If I didnt agree with something someone said, then Id say it, and unless they had a good reason for it, I wouldnt back down. Ive never just followed something blindly because I always thought hat was a stupid thing to do. I've had a time when Ive walked away from God, and tried to have nothing to do with him, but. I had already had too many personal experiences with God to be able to convince myself that he wasnt there. I've seen things not only in my own life, but in some of my friends lives that dont believe the same as me to have any shadow of a doubt who God is. And with that conviction, comes what he says in his word.

Im not sure what I would be considered, I believe in the divinity of the bible, that it should be taken literally unless there is sufficient reasoning within the text to not do that. The parables are a good example, that they should be taken as just stories, because thats all that Jesus ever claimed they were, just stories with moral value. So Im very conservative in my view of the bible. On the flipside though, Ive gone to church in shorts and a sleeveless shirt, wore a hat in the sanctuary, obviously since I play elements I dont think video games are evil, and will play just about any game you give me. Ill listen to just about any music, and watch any show and have gotten into debates about things like this being evil with people from my own church. I dont cuss, and my wife dresses modestly in public places.

So Ive got a question for you ratcharmer. What would you consider me? Cause Im curious about what stereotype I would fit into.
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Re: Responses to a few common arguments https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=9817.msg130652#msg130652
« Reply #38 on: August 04, 2010, 01:06:47 am »
Can you go to heaven with sin? No.
Are we sinners? Yes.
Did Jesus Christ forgive our sins? Yes.
Can Jesus forgive our sins if we don't let him into our hearts? No.
So, if we believe in Jesus as our savior, can we go to heaven? Yes.
If we don't? No.
(Note that that's one of the main reasons Christianity is so evangelical. Believers want to save those that don't).

Personally I feel this is a core belief of Christianity.I may not agree with what certain denominations of it say, however, this is the most important thing to me.
For those who believe in this path to heaven, why do you feel it is right over another path, such as Islam?  Is it the actions of the religion's followers or a reading of various holy books, or something else?

For those who believe there is no reward or punishment in choosing a faith, does it boil down to just a personal preference then, like what flavor of ice cream you like?
Firstly, most paths declare themselves right over other paths through the paradox of competing views. For example, the statement “There is a God”, held by theists, and “There is no god,” held by atheists, cannot both be true. One must be true, the other not. So it is inherent that a belief in a particular path must, by its nature, also believe that another path is only partially correct, or else entirely wrong.

Thus, a Christian believes that a Muslim is incorrect (partially or fully depends on the view of the individual Christian), and it should be noted, vice versa.

Your second question relates to an individual’s faith. Some people hold their beliefs because it is what they grew up with, and have never had it challenged, or challenged it themselves. For those who have tested their belief, or had it tested, and retain it, it is usually a combination of a) the examples set by other followers, as you suggested b) the thoughts of other followers, either spoken aloud or written down c) their own personal spiritual experiences; moments of hearing the voice of God, feeling a spiritual presence, miraculous occurrences, etc.

In regard to your third question, I would suggest that if one adheres to a faith out of desire for reward, or out of fear from punishment, then they may have the wrong end of the stick, as it were. The promise of heaven and the fear of hell* have been much abused by many religious leaders and teachers, and have been mis-prioritised. If one adheres to a faith, one should do it because they wholeheartedly believe it is true. Did you vote Democrat because you were promised a cash bonus if you did, and a prison sentence if you didn’t? Or did you vote Democrat because you believed they were the “most right?” Bear in mind, you don’t have to believe they were “all right”, just the closest to “right” of all available options. This is much like a religion. In whatever belief you may hold, there will be elements of the system which you do not like, and may believe are just plain wrong. That doesn’t mean the core principle of the belief is rotten. It usually means that some fallible humans are involved in there somewhere.

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Re: Responses to a few common arguments https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=9817.msg130853#msg130853
« Reply #39 on: August 04, 2010, 06:15:12 am »
Firstly, most paths declare themselves right over other paths through the paradox of competing views. For example, the statement “There is a God”, held by theists, and “There is no god,” held by atheists, cannot both be true. One must be true, the other not. So it is inherent that a belief in a particular path must, by its nature, also believe that another path is only partially correct, or else entirely wrong.

Thus, a Christian believes that a Muslim is incorrect (partially or fully depends on the view of the individual Christian), and it should be noted, vice versa.
This is correct.  But one is not born a Christian, Muslim, or atheist, one must determine which is correct.  In order to choose you have to view the other options and determine they are incorrect or just blindly pick one.  So, my question was specific--what in the Islamic faith is wrong?

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Your second question relates to an individual’s faith. Some people hold their beliefs because it is what they grew up with, and have never had it challenged, or challenged it themselves. For those who have tested their belief, or had it tested, and retain it, it is usually a combination of a) the examples set by other followers, as you suggested b) the thoughts of other followers, either spoken aloud or written down
You seem to have the idea that choosing a religion because of the examples or words of it followers is a valid reason.  I say it is not.  It is similar to following a religion because of reward/punishment.  Imagine a person thinking "This religion doesn't make sense to me, but since all my friends are in it, I think I'll join the bandwagon."

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c) their own personal spiritual experiences; moments of hearing the voice of God, feeling a spiritual presence, miraculous occurrences, etc.
In regards to these experiences, how do you know it is a divine presence and not just your mind playing tricks on you?

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In regard to your third question, I would suggest that if one adheres to a faith out of desire for reward, or out of fear from punishment, then they may have the wrong end of the stick, as it were. The promise of heaven and the fear of hell* have been much abused by many religious leaders and teachers, and have been mis-prioritised. If one adheres to a faith, one should do it because they wholeheartedly believe it is true. Did you vote Democrat because you were promised a cash bonus if you did, and a prison sentence if you didn’t? Or did you vote Democrat because you believed they were the “most right?” Bear in mind, you don’t have to believe they were “all right”, just the closest to “right” of all available options. This is much like a religion. In whatever belief you may hold, there will be elements of the system which you do not like, and may believe are just plain wrong. That doesn’t mean the core principle of the belief is rotten. It usually means that some fallible humans are involved in there somewhere.
I think some people may feel trapped and don't explore other options because of this risk.


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Re: Responses to a few common arguments https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=9817.msg130956#msg130956
« Reply #40 on: August 04, 2010, 12:17:21 pm »
In regards to these experiences, how do you know it is a divine presence and not just your mind playing tricks on you?
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You can either accept something or you can deny it. All of life boils down to this, and that is how we are defined. When God speaks, you can either choose to listen, or deny it and say its your imagination. The craziest thing in the world to me was one day I jumped out of a car the way home from a school concert (too long to tell the whole story, basically I was really upset), and walked the rest of the way home. I could hear footsteps right next to me the entire time, plain as day. That was all the proof I needed for Gods existence, and proof that he will never leave nor forsake me. The old prayer, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of doubt, I will fear no evil for are know he is with me, became very real to me that night.

I could deny those footsteps, and say my mind was playing tricks on me, but I know that's not true.
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Re: Responses to a few common arguments https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=9817.msg131001#msg131001
« Reply #41 on: August 04, 2010, 02:35:18 pm »
You know that famous poem, Footsteps in the sand or somesuch? Well I had the same experience as the protagonist in that. I used to think I heard God, but I realise now that I only ever heard him at emotionally charged times, like when a church is in full swing, and even then it was never as clear as the experience you describe. But once I began to have my first doubts, I never heard from him again in any way, shape or form. Other's experience may differ, but that was mine.

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Re: Responses to a few common arguments https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=9817.msg131102#msg131102
« Reply #42 on: August 04, 2010, 05:04:53 pm »
That is just one of several personal experiences. Some people can get all the proof they would ever need, but just deny it. I had a friend, never was strong in the lord, and was going through a very tough time. Then in a dream, James 4:7 appeared to her. Not the whole verse, just the reference, and she turned to it. Says Submit yourself to God, resist the devil, and he will flee from you. It turned her life around. For a while at least. Her faith left her eventually. My point is that in my view, God will show you enough for you to have a reason to believe, and then leave it up to you. and yeah, I remember that poem. My sister collects them. They are inspirational, no matter your beliefs that much is undeniable. My experience reminded me of that as well.
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Re: Responses to a few common arguments https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=9817.msg131281#msg131281
« Reply #43 on: August 04, 2010, 08:04:17 pm »
@Bluepriest: I'd say you fit somewhere in the moderate to conservative Christian range, if that's what you're asking. I usually try to avoid using stereotypes (at least consciously) though, as they often cause more misunderstanding than they prevent. People are people, and many of the groups we categorize ourselves into are largely arbitrary.

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Is this the poem you're referring to?

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Footprints in the Sand

        One night I dreamed I was walking along the beach with the Lord.
             Many scenes from my life flashed across the sky.
                  In each scene I noticed footprints in the sand.
                       Sometimes there were two sets of footprints,
                           other times there were one set of footprints.
 
                                  This bothered me because I noticed
                                that during the low periods of my life,
                             when I was suffering from
                         anguish, sorrow or defeat,
                     I could see only one set of footprints.
 
          So I said to the Lord,
      "You promised me Lord,
         that if I followed you,
             you would walk with me always.
                   But I have noticed that during
                          the most trying periods of my life
                                 there have only been one
                                       set of footprints in the sand.
                                           Why, when I needed you most,
                                          you have not been there for me?"
 
                                 The Lord replied,
                          "The times when you have
                  seen only one set of footprints,
          is when I carried you."
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Bluepriest said it quite well, but if it's okay I'd like to re-iterate since I feel like this has come up a couple times.

Basically, with anything I experience I can either assume that what my senses are telling me is reasonably accurate, or I could assume that my perceptions are wrong in some way. Most people make this decision without even thinking about it.

When I sit down to eat dinner tonight, it is entirely possible that my mind is playing some sort of trick on me and what I perceive as a plate of delicious pasta is actually a pile of live worms, or moldy socks. This will not discourage me from enjoying my meal, not because it is impossible (my brother has had encounters with a mental patient who keeps eating litter and cigarette butts) but because if I begin discounting my own perceptions of the world, then I have no basis whatsoever left by which to make decisions. Heck, I can't even tell if I am making decisions at that point.

So I'll just enjoy my delicious meal of moldy socks.

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Re: Responses to a few common arguments https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=9817.msg131336#msg131336
« Reply #44 on: August 04, 2010, 09:12:21 pm »
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That is my perception of reality, yes.  I could be living in the Matrix, or dreaming all of reality, but regardless there are rules by which this reality is governed and I don't expect the Earth to stop spinning or for giant mutant ants to start reaking havoc.  If you allow for a god to be causing footsteps next to you, why do you not allow for gremlins to be hacking the electrical grid or fairies causing deer to run in front of your car?  Or do you also believe in those things, as well?  I sincerely do not see a difference between the two.

because if I begin discounting my own perceptions of the world, then I have no basis whatsoever left by which to make decisions. Heck, I can't even tell if I am making decisions at that point.
Of course you can discount your perceptions and continue to function, make decisions, and live your life.  You just have to put it in perspective.

You see a pencil in a glass full of water and the pencil appears broken, you pull it out and it appears straight and whole.  You don't think "my eyes have deceived me and I can no longer trust them for gathering data."  Your understanding of physics allows you to comprehend what is happening and adjust your conception accordingly.

It's the same if I lose my keys in my apartment, I don't think "some mysterious force has entered my abode and stolen or hidden my keys."  I realize my memory is fallible and then I use a logical approach to finding my keys.

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Re: Responses to a few common arguments https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=9817.msg131396#msg131396
« Reply #45 on: August 04, 2010, 10:38:35 pm »
Firstly, most paths declare themselves right over other paths through the paradox of competing views. For example, the statement “There is a God”, held by theists, and “There is no god,” held by atheists, cannot both be true. One must be true, the other not. So it is inherent that a belief in a particular path must, by its nature, also believe that another path is only partially correct, or else entirely wrong.

Thus, a Christian believes that a Muslim is incorrect (partially or fully depends on the view of the individual Christian), and it should be noted, vice versa.
This is correct.  But one is not born a Christian, Muslim, or atheist, one must determine which is correct.  In order to choose you have to view the other options and determine they are incorrect or just blindly pick one.  So, my question was specific--what in the Islamic faith is wrong?
It specifically depends on whom you are asking. Ask a Muslim, they will reply, “Nothing”. Ask a Christian, they will say, “Muslims view Jesus as a prophet, not the son of God.” Ask an atheist, they will – or may – reply, “Everything.”

What I was trying to say is that usually, one selects a faith because that faith is, to them, most right, rather than selecting a faith as a default because another faith is more wrong. As a non-Muslim, what do you believe is wrong with Islam?



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Your second question relates to an individual’s faith. Some people hold their beliefs because it is what they grew up with, and have never had it challenged, or challenged it themselves. For those who have tested their belief, or had it tested, and retain it, it is usually a combination of a) the examples set by other followers, as you suggested b) the thoughts of other followers, either spoken aloud or written down
You seem to have the idea that choosing a religion because of the examples or words of it followers is a valid reason.  I say it is not.  It is similar to following a religion because of reward/punishment.  Imagine a person thinking "This religion doesn't make sense to me, but since all my friends are in it, I think I'll join the bandwagon."
Two quick points on this – I used the word “combination”, as ideally, a view should be held because it DOES make sense to them, through writings and testimonies of others, in addition to the examples set by those sharing that view.

And secondly, those examples of others should not be peer pressure or conformity, but living testaments. If someone says, “I’m an avid Scientologist, and look at my life – it’s falling apart!”, you may begin to question whether the governing standards of that life are really worth paying attention to. Conversely, if someone says that they are an Orthodox Jew, and their family life seems loving, stable and supportive, you may become curious as to why. The “what’s your secret?” and “I’ll have what she’s having” impulses.

Really, it’s backing up words with action, and as humans, it’s what we expect to see from anyone making a claim, whether is religion, politics, or new Whizzo floor polish, with added spiff molecules for that deep-down clean!

Incidentally, just apply these philosophies to yourself for a moment, to see if I am talking nonsense or not. Whatever your own view may be, did you first receive it, and now currently maintain it, through theory alone, or following others alone, or a combination of the two? And whenever you encounter something new, do you accept testimony alone before you get involved, or do you like to see examples as well?


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c) their own personal spiritual experiences; moments of hearing the voice of God, feeling a spiritual presence, miraculous occurrences, etc.
In regards to these experiences, how do you know it is a divine presence and not just your mind playing tricks on you?
That’s a very specific question, and would need to be asked to each individual, over each instance of supposed spiritual intervention. And it is hard to answer. Some occurrences really may be coincidence, or the mind playing tricks. Others… may be something metaphysical. But to take a wider view, it will also depend on how credulous or skeptical the individual is.

For example, a particular person may hear a click, once, during a phone conversation, and exclaim, “The phones are bugged! The Government is monitoring me!” Another person may notice a black van, driven by two men with earpieces, which seems to be driving three cars behind them everywhere they go for six months, and say, “Wow, what an extraordinary series of coincidences.”

Two extreme examples, at opposite ends of the spectrum, but I have met both kinds of people, with regard to views on spiritual intervention, or miracles. Or aliens. Or ghosts.


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In regard to your third question, I would suggest that if one adheres to a faith out of desire for reward, or out of fear from punishment, then they may have the wrong end of the stick, as it were. The promise of heaven and the fear of hell have been much abused by many religious leaders and teachers, and have been mis-prioritised. If one adheres to a faith, one should do it because they wholeheartedly believe it is true. Did you vote Democrat because you were promised a cash bonus if you did, and a prison sentence if you didn’t? Or did you vote Democrat because you believed they were the “most right?” Bear in mind, you don’t have to believe they were “all right”, just the closest to “right” of all available options. This is much like a religion. In whatever belief you may hold, there will be elements of the system which you do not like, and may believe are just plain wrong. That doesn’t mean the core principle of the belief is rotten. It usually means that some fallible humans are involved in there somewhere.
I think some people may feel trapped and don't explore other options because of this risk.
Be careful. This looks like a gross generalisation. Oh, I don’t doubt there are people who feel trapped by their views, and fear risk. In fact, I would dare to venture my own sweeping statement, to say that most humans do fear, to one degree or the other, the unknown.

But I would recommend specific examples in this kind of thinking. If you know someone, or multiple someones, whom your statement applies to (and know them, not just know of them), talk about them, and your experiences with them. It will give your views a lot more weight.


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That is my perception of reality, yes.  I could be living in the Matrix, or dreaming all of reality, but regardless there are rules by which this reality is governed and I don't expect the Earth to stop spinning or for giant mutant ants to start reaking havoc.  If you allow for a god to be causing footsteps next to you, why do you not allow for gremlins to be hacking the electrical grid or fairies causing deer to run in front of your car?  Or do you also believe in those things, as well?  I sincerely do not see a difference between the two.
Again, be very careful, my friend. You have inadvertently strayed into even more dangerous territory. The spiritual encounters of people are often some of their most intimate memories, held close to their hearts, and even if you do believe they are poppycock, you should be very diplomatic about your assessment of them, or risk mortally insulting them.

And do you really, really not see the difference between a deity causing an unseen sound, and the interference of gremlins and faeries? Without subscribing to any view, I can already see a very big difference between them. One is a possible circumstance relating to a number of different faiths, believed in cumulatively by the majority of the world’s inhabitants, the other two are clear inventions of folk tales and children’s stories. I am not saying the God explanation is true, but I am saying that compared to the others, it is far more likely to be true.

I only add this caution, and I do so with respect, because it is a brief moment where patronisation has entered what is otherwise a clear and enlightened discussion.

As to the other point, and reference to the Matrix, it is actually a common question and theme running through most philosophy – the definition of “reality”. Buddhist thought speculates on life as a dream, and asks, “Who is dreaming us now?” French philosopher Rene Descartes pursued the concept of existence, and found that the material world was insufficiently reliable, and that the only undeniable truth he could claim was Cogito Ergo Sum, or, I think, therefore I am. And, as used here, The Matrix is a modern exploration of the fluid nature of reality, and our perceptions of it. It is a theme which strikes a chord with many, as we see numerous examples of it, perhaps most recently with Inception.

This world may indeed be no more than what we encounter in it. Then again, this material universe may only be one layer of something deeper. Of course, neither you nor I expect giant mutant ants, but if there really is more to this existence than meets the eye, when the outside breaks in, or we break out, we are going to be rather surprised by what we did not expect.

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Re: Responses to a few common arguments https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=9817.msg131650#msg131650
« Reply #46 on: August 05, 2010, 07:05:09 am »
So, my question was specific--what in the Islamic faith is wrong?
It specifically depends on whom you are asking. Ask a Muslim, they will reply, “Nothing”. Ask a Christian, they will say, “Muslims view Jesus as a prophet, not the son of God.” Ask an atheist, they will – or may – reply, “Everything.”

What I was trying to say is that usually, one selects a faith because that faith is, to them, most right, rather than selecting a faith as a default because another faith is more wrong. As a non-Muslim, what do you believe is wrong with Islam?
I'm asking anyone who is reading who is not currently a Muslim, why they are not.  As for myself, I see Islam the same as Christianity, and all other religions.  I think this quote from Richard Dawkins says it best "We are all atheists about most of the gods that societies have ever believed in. Some of us just go one god further."

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Your second question relates to an individual’s faith. Some people hold their beliefs because it is what they grew up with, and have never had it challenged, or challenged it themselves. For those who have tested their belief, or had it tested, and retain it, it is usually a combination of a) the examples set by other followers, as you suggested b) the thoughts of other followers, either spoken aloud or written down
You seem to have the idea that choosing a religion because of the examples or words of it followers is a valid reason.  I say it is not.  It is similar to following a religion because of reward/punishment.  Imagine a person thinking "This religion doesn't make sense to me, but since all my friends are in it, I think I'll join the bandwagon."
Two quick points on this – I used the word “combination”, as ideally, a view should be held because it DOES make sense to them, through writings and testimonies of others, in addition to the examples set by those sharing that view.

And secondly, those examples of others should not be peer pressure or conformity, but living testaments. If someone says, “I’m an avid Scientologist, and look at my life – it’s falling apart!”, you may begin to question whether the governing standards of that life are really worth paying attention to. Conversely, if someone says that they are an Orthodox Jew, and their family life seems loving, stable and supportive, you may become curious as to why. The “what’s your secret?” and “I’ll have what she’s having” impulses.
This seems to be a utilitarian argument for religion.  Are you suggesting that no matter what the belief, if the outcome is good (an enriched life), the belief is a worthy one?

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Incidentally, just apply these philosophies to yourself for a moment, to see if I am talking nonsense or not. Whatever your own view may be, did you first receive it, and now currently maintain it, through theory alone, or following others alone, or a combination of the two? And whenever you encounter something new, do you accept testimony alone before you get involved, or do you like to see examples as well?
I came to my current thinking through "theorizing" I guess you can call it, lying awake at night when I was younger trying to make sense out of the world.  I came to the conclusion that if people are forced to gamble for their salvation (thanks ratcharmer for the apt phrase) then a god wasn't worth worshiping.  I had these thoughts on my own because through other experiences I had learned that if you find something important it might be safer to keep it to yourself.  Being that it is my whole family is religious, I was afraid that I might be ostracized or punished in some way.  As I grew I learned more critical thinking and became more independent to the point where I felt safe expressing my views and also in confirming them against reality.  I find it amazing that I once thought there was a god and I wonder how I can help people come to the same realization.

As far as new encounters, I do a quick cost/benefit analysis before deciding on whether testimony or more is needed.  If someone says, "hey, this ice cream tastes great", then I consider what is the worst that can happen--I could have a bad taste in my mouth.  So I don't need a study done before I give it a try.  However, if someone says ,"hey, this ice cream allows me to float off of skyscrapers", well then I would need considerable proof--scientific studies, video evidence, etc.

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I think some people may feel trapped and don't explore other options because of this risk.
Be careful. This looks like a gross generalisation. Oh, I don’t doubt there are people who feel trapped by their views, and fear risk. In fact, I would dare to venture my own sweeping statement, to say that most humans do fear, to one degree or the other, the unknown.

But I would recommend specific examples in this kind of thinking. If you know someone, or multiple someones, whom your statement applies to (and know them, not just know of them), talk about them, and your experiences with them. It will give your views a lot more weight.
I guess my own example as stated above applies somewhat.  Luckily, I was young, had the time to think about it, was able to hold a conversation with myself, and did not rely on debating others to figure it all out.  When the internet came about, (what a wonderful invention!), I was then able to confirm my understanding.  There was vast volumes of data I can read through and hear all about different views and learn basically anything that anybody in the world was willing to put out there.  I still have this enormous fascination with the internet, to the point where some may claim addiction.  I am pretty much a recluse when it comes to anything else.

I have tried to have this and other debates with my mother, but she tries desperately to avoid it and can not explain why she believes what she does.  I am not a parent myself, but I could imagine that if one were to teach their children in a religion (worldview and morals included), and then come to the realization it was all wrong, and that they had set their children back and made judgments on their children based on wrong morals--that would be psychologically impossible.  I think for someone in my mother's position, it is too late.  There is a fear or basic instinct to not change.

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I could be living in the Matrix, or dreaming all of reality, but regardless there are rules by which this reality is governed and I don't expect the Earth to stop spinning or for giant mutant ants to start reaking havoc.  If you allow for a god to be causing footsteps next to you, why do you not allow for gremlins to be hacking the electrical grid or fairies causing deer to run in front of your car?  Or do you also believe in those things, as well?  I sincerely do not see a difference between the two.
Again, be very careful, my friend. You have inadvertently strayed into even more dangerous territory. The spiritual encounters of people are often some of their most intimate memories, held close to their hearts, and even if you do believe they are poppycock, you should be very diplomatic about your assessment of them, or risk mortally insulting them.

And do you really, really not see the difference between a deity causing an unseen sound, and the interference of gremlins and faeries? Without subscribing to any view, I can already see a very big difference between them. One is a possible circumstance relating to a number of different faiths, believed in cumulatively by the majority of the world’s inhabitants, the other two are clear inventions of folk tales and children’s stories. I am not saying the God explanation is true, but I am saying that compared to the others, it is far more likely to be true.

I only add this caution, and I do so with respect, because it is a brief moment where patronisation has entered what is otherwise a clear and enlightened discussion.
I can understand what you are saying here, but I could also turn that statement around on you.  If you see a difference between them, then you have already discounted gremlins and faeries.  There are people to this day (and you can find their testimony all over the web) that do believe in faeries.  There was a time when that was a wide spread belief.  There was once a time when slavery was justified by the majority of people.  If you say that belief in faeries is not as likely to be true as a deity are you not insulting those who believe in faeries?

I am trying to be as honest as I can in this conversation and I am trying to find out why people believe the things they do.  I am not trying to make anybody pissed off or feel inferior.  When you ask if I really, really do not see the difference, I am saying that I do not.  If you say that a majority of the world believing in something lends some creedence to the belief, I have to say you are wrong.  Look at the history of the world, and you will see countless ideas that were held by the majority of people at the time as being right and that we now know are wrong.  If there is something more to that argument, then I am not recognizing it, so please point it out for me.

In this conversation you are seeing why I hold the view that I do, or at least I hope you are.  If something doesn't make sense logically to me, I will say so.  You can't say some parts of the conversation are immune to logic or discussion, because then we are no longer examining ideas, but just two TVs turned on and pointed at each other.  If your intention is to minimize venom or offensiveness, then great.  What I get offended at is when someone asserts something as true without rationality behind it--that is the textbook definition of bigotry.  Since we are all still here conversing, that means we are all open to learning from each other.  So when I say something that looks like my intent is to belittle or incite--why I am actually saying it is because that is how I understand it to be.

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Re: Responses to a few common arguments https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=9817.msg133298#msg133298
« Reply #47 on: August 08, 2010, 12:35:10 am »
I've broken this up into multiple posts, simply because I was afraid of it becoming a monster. Hopefully, it will also allow anyone to comment on a single point more easily.

So, my question was specific--what in the Islamic faith is wrong?
It specifically depends on whom you are asking. Ask a Muslim, they will reply, “Nothing”. Ask a Christian, they will say, “Muslims view Jesus as a prophet, not the son of God.” Ask an atheist, they will – or may – reply, “Everything.”

What I was trying to say is that usually, one selects a faith because that faith is, to them, most right, rather than selecting a faith as a default because another faith is more wrong. As a non-Muslim, what do you believe is wrong with Islam?
I'm asking anyone who is reading who is not currently a Muslim, why they are not.  As for myself, I see Islam the same as Christianity, and all other religions.  I think this quote from Richard Dawkins says it best "We are all atheists about most of the gods that societies have ever believed in. Some of us just go one god further."
I would slightly disagree with this Dawkins point. I would classify an atheist perspective as an outright casting off of a view, and many believers of a faith do not have that perspective to other faiths. For example, Jews, Christians and Muslims are all “children of Abraham”, and all believe in the same God, but name Him differently, and ascribe different words and actions to him. I would not think that any one of these faiths would throw away the entirety of the other two, but be more precise in what was agreed and disagreed. A scalpel, rather than a broadsword.

Of course, there are some faiths which are completely incompatible with others. Theravada Buddhism is, technically speaking, an atheist religion, and is incompatible with a monotheistic view, while the pantheism of Hinduism is also fairly irreconcilable. But for the most part, I believe that this quote by Dawkins illustrates the man’s own preconceptions more than anything else.

Specifically in terms of MY perspective on ISLAM, I do not believe in it, as the fact that the Koran wholly comes from one man, the Prophet Mohammed, increases the chances of human error becoming involved. I also look at the examples of its followers, and even steering well-clear of a reactionary comment about terrorism, I still see a widespread culture of inequality between men and women. There seems to me too much in Islam which directly benefits certain people within the faith, which then in turn smacks of human invention, rather than divine inspiration.

All that said, I am not an ex-Muslim, nor a Muslim scholar. I will be the first to admit my own deficiencies of Islamic study, and prepare to stand corrected on any errors in my thinking. It is simply my reasoning for not being a Muslim.

 

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