May I ask what is it that you believe?
I believe that different religions are, for the most part, different interpretations (& occasionally misinterpretations) of an underlying universal truth. What is commonly cited here is a parable about the blind men and the elephant.
There are three blind men, who have never encountered, nor heard of an elephant before. One day they come across a man with a tame elephant, who invites them to investigate it.
The first man touches the elephant's trunk and says "ah, an elephant is like a snake"
The next man touches the elephant's leg and says "I would say it's closer to a tree"
The third man touches the elephant's ear and says "It's more like cloth, where are you getting tree from?"Each man has accurately described
part of the elephant. Similarly, I don't think any one human can understand God in His entirety, so we are each given parts of the truth.
If in my own postmortem adventure I discover that I have been absolutely correct on every detail about God, I will be genuinely shocked. I am a flawed human being, I make no pretense at being anything else.
I consider myself Christian because I genuinely believe that Jesus was God's son, and that he gave himself up in sacrifice to allow humans into heaven. I do not believe that people could reach heaven without God's help (hence, Jesus) but I also do not believe that someone would necessarily be condemned for having the wrong idea. I know where I am is a safe place, but I don't know that there are no other safe places out there.
At least to me what someone believes is not so important as why they believe it. If someone is honestly seeking the truth and comes to a different conclusion than I have then I generally don't think God would penalize that person, but again I must say that in order to confirm this I would need to either die, or receive a direct missive from God on the subject.
Matthew 7:7-8
Ask, and it will be given you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you. For every one who asks receives, and he who seeks finds, and to him who knocks it will be opened.
Yes, there are many Christians who believe all non-Christians will be condemned. There are also a great many who don't believe this. Generally most people hear from the former group more often because people tend to be more evangelistic if they believe that there's more at stake in converting people.
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I really didn't intend to start a lengthy discussion on how logical various positions are or are not. Maybe if we want to expand on this further we can go to a new thread? If everyones okay with discussing it here that's fine, I just feel like I'm pulling the thread off topic.