Im sorry, not trying to be insensitive here, but you go to a religion thread, enter a debate with christians, and then get angry when you are told you are going to hell? You obviously already have knowledge of this. If it angers you then I assume there is something much deeper, considering I am sure there are plenty of religions where I am not going to that religions "heaven" and could be going to that religions "hell". However, it would not upset me because I already know where I am going. I know what is true and therefor what other people think will happen to me when I die is irrelevant. Perhaps you should examine what you believe, because if someone saying you are going to hell bothers you when you dont believe a thing we say, then there seems to be some internal conflict.
It's the sheer amount of arrogance and pride they have that annoys me. How dare they say that I'm going to hell? What gave them the right to claim that their way is the only way? It is one thing to have beliefs, it's another thing to force your beliefs onto others and condemn all that don't convert. For me, I may think my beliefs are absolute truth, but I obviously can't make you guys all believe in me. I didn't condemn you guys, now did I?
It doesn't "bother" me. I'm just irritated by it.
As for the whole good and evil debate, there is simply no such thing as absolute good/evil. All moral values are relative and contrived. But this means your God cannot be a benevolent deity, since benevolence itself is relative. Thus, the whole argument of "God is nice" is invalid in its very foundation. It's pointless to try to pick holes in that argument, because the argument itself is already so intrinsically flawed.
As a substitute for the more relative "good" and "evil", I use selfishness and altruism. So let me rephrase your debate: "Is God selfish or altruistic?" But this question is also flawed. If God is truly selfless and only wants the happiness of his creations, then he can simply suspend all of us in a perpetual state of eternal bliss. If that's the case, then God does not want humans to have free will. There are two possible answers to this question: 1) God is altruistic, and he is trying to find a balance between absolute happiness and free will for his subjects; but this means God is not as omnipotent as Christians claim. 2) God is selfish, and is simply doing all of this for teh lulz. In which case, I'm not sure I'll want to believe in such a God.
In the first answer to the question above, I said God is not omnipotent and is trying to find the optimal point. But if he
is omnipotent
and altruistic, that means the current state of the world is already the optimal balance point between happiness and free will that he looked for. In this case, God will have no reasons to help any of us, since he is already satisfied with his world.
To summarize, I deduced that God can't be altruistic and omnipotent at the same time. If he is, then he still would not help us. Thus, I think that me believing in Christianity will not benefit me in any way other than deluding myself. I'm not that desperate yet.