Ok, the old testament verses, Im not even going to touch individually, however, for all the other verses, it seems like you really dont understand.
Now, for the old testament verses, yes, they were really strict. You have to look at them in a diffedrent context though.
1) God was talking all to people that KNEW him. He wasnt talking to a group of half atheist half christian or anything like that. So yes, he was more strict, because these were people who knew beyond a shadow of a doubt he was there.
2)You have to realize that in that point in time, human-kind was still newborn. Hee couldnt jump right into letting them have as much freedom as he allows them in the new testament, because they could destroy themselves. Literally. Human kind was a little kid.
If you REALLY WANT ME TO GO OVER EACH AND INDIVIDUAL VERSE, then I can, but that blanket statement pretty much sums it up.
Now for the individual verses that are new testament.
1Tim 2:11-12
Let a woman learn in silence with full submission. I permit no woman* to teach or to have authority over a man; she is to keep silent.
This is talking about as far as being a pastor goes. Because whether anyone would like to admit it or not, God gave certain sexes things that they are better in. thats not sexist, its just simply the way it is. And you are missing something. The beginning where it says LET A WOMEN LEARN, is actually quite different from how it use to be. Women were never held to be worth teaching, and it is saying here as an imperetive, which is not something the 1st century Judaist, or the greek of that day would normally allow. Baby steps. God takes things 1 step at a time.
God doesnt say that women should have no say in a relationship, the bible actually does quite the opposite and stresses the importance of equality in relationships.
Col 3:22-24
Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything, not only while being watched and in order to please them, but wholeheartedly, fearing the Lord. Whatever your task, put yourselves into it, as done for the Lord and not for your masters, since you know that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward; you serve the Lord Christ
Yep, there WERE slaves in that day. They were NOTHING like the slaves you imagine today though.
Luke 14:26
Whoever comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and even life itself, cannot be my disciple
The point he is trying to bring up is that you need to be able to follow God fully, and love him with all your heart. My life goes like this.
1)Love God
2)Love my wife
3)Love my Family
I have a space there for comparison. Jesus is saying not that you should literally HATE your parents, He is saying that compared to your love to God, your love for your family should look like hate.
Regeardless of whos common sense it is, common sense will never tell you that there is a god. Common sense can only act under the worlds laws. Say im playing a game....and im not bond to laws anymore.
This topic is about disproving, but i dont start something with disproving. I start with proving and if my proof is wrong other people can disprove it later.
Actually, that may be how YOUR common sense works, but other peoples common sense work completely different. Many people look at the world, and say that we had to have been designed and that there is no way all of this happened by chance. And guess what, that is their common sense. This common sense argument is completely relative. It has no factual basis (because if you learn something, its not common sense, its an acquired knowledge), and doesnt prove or disprove anything in the first place.
The problem with the Bible is simple. What God says in the Bible is, in many places, quite offensive to us. As soon as we read the offensive parts of the Bible in public, we all realize that the Bible has serious problems and should have no place in our society. Whether you are a devout Christian or a casual Christian, consider the verses i've quoted. Do you believe that a perfect, loving, all-knowing God wrote them? Do you support any of these verses and believe they should be applied to our society today? If God exists and if he did "inspire" the Bible as Christians believe, then when we read the Bible outloud we are hearing our all-knowing God speak. Every Christian should jump at the chance to spread God's word on national television. The problem is that much of what God says when he speaks is repulsive . It makes us so uncomfortable that we cannot bear to read it publicly. so we only quote the feel good bible verses....other religions dont escape this..muslims like to ignore the verse which plainly gives a man permission to beat his wife for not obeying...
God not being politically correct doesnt mean that the bible is disproven. In fact, I would be less likely to believe it if it had a universalism message instead.
Youve got to realize something. All the verses you point out, Christians know they are in there. So that means one of two things.
1)They agree with your interpretation, and think we should all do that (which an observation of most churches will not agree with this)
2)They have a better understanding than you of what the verses really say in context, and in respect to the time it was written.
And #2 is what it really is.