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Re: So hey, What's wrong with being Gay? https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=17336.msg222451#msg222451
« Reply #24 on: December 11, 2010, 11:32:08 pm »
/derailed thread.

This is verging on inappropriate. Let's keep this a decent thread shall we?
Hey there I agree... keep on a down low bout that inappropriate shit.
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Re: So hey, What's wrong with being Gay? https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=17336.msg224084#msg224084
« Reply #25 on: December 13, 2010, 11:18:46 pm »
i am neither gay, bi, or straight. im a happy neutral, yet everyone persists that i HAVE to find someone attractive. and i dont think that getting into "adult" vocabulary is innappropriate at all, if someone finds any of this innappropriate, why are they looking in this thread? sexual preference does need certain explanations afterall.
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Re: So hey, What's wrong with being Gay? https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=17336.msg224130#msg224130
« Reply #26 on: December 14, 2010, 12:03:36 am »
i am neither gay, bi, or straight. im a happy neutral, yet everyone persists that i HAVE to find someone attractive.
ha I see that you hold to your anti-identity quite strongly.  Not finding anyone attractive, a user name that sounds like a robot, and a comment under your avy that says "I am faceless".

Could you explain your situation further, I find it fascinating.  Do you even find yourself attractive?  Usually if a person doesn't find anyone attractive, they at least are narcissistic

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Re: So hey, What's wrong with being Gay? https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=17336.msg224221#msg224221
« Reply #27 on: December 14, 2010, 01:17:27 am »
I'm guessing that if you'r not sexually attracted to anyone/anything, then maybe you're asexual?

But not being attracted at all (in any way) to anything would be pretty boring. But not really something you can do much about.

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Re: So hey, What's wrong with being Gay? https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=17336.msg224325#msg224325
« Reply #28 on: December 14, 2010, 03:35:21 am »
i am neither gay, bi, or straight. im a happy neutral, yet everyone persists that i HAVE to find someone attractive. and i dont think that getting into "adult" vocabulary is innappropriate at all, if someone finds any of this innappropriate, why are they looking in this thread? sexual preference does need certain explanations afterall.
I've never heard of anyone like that... how boring
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Re: So hey, What's wrong with being Gay? https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=17336.msg224780#msg224780
« Reply #29 on: December 14, 2010, 09:53:50 pm »
the fact of the matter is that i dont have any reason to be attracted to anyone. im thinking its probably because i have desensitized myself due to excessive... "sessions" in my childhood, and i no longer find it interesting or even worth the time? i dont know, all i do know is that i just lost all interest in any of that stuff a while ago. [/unintentional thread highjack] any other further questions/conversations will proceed in the pm system.
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Re: So hey, What's wrong with being Gay? https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=17336.msg224832#msg224832
« Reply #30 on: December 14, 2010, 10:46:37 pm »
Just a quick comment on homosexuality and PDAs. Just because someone doesn't like what you're doing doesn't mean they hate gay people.

Twice I've gone to a movie were a couple decides that they'd rather make out than actually watch the movie. They did so in a way that was disruptive to the movie, as you could hear them sucking face and other such nonsense. One time it was a heterosexual couple and the other time it was a homosexual one. Both times I made polite requests asking them to stop what they were doing, as it was disruptive to the movie I had come to see. This is the response I received each time.

The heterosexual couple:

"Oh I'm sorry. I guess we got a little carried away. We'll stop now."

I think they left about 15 minutes later.

The homosexual couple:

"What you have some kind of problem with gay people! What makes you think you have the right to judge us! I'll kick your ass right now!"

Since I had absolutely no interest in getting into a fist fight, my friend and I opted to leave immediately.

Point is, just because someone doesn't like what you're doing, doesn't make them some sort of homophobe. If what you're doing is inappropriate, you should be able to recognize that. You have absolutely no right to fly off the handle when someone asks you to stop behavior that was inappropriate to begin with.

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Re: So hey, What's wrong with being Gay? https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=17336.msg224845#msg224845
« Reply #31 on: December 14, 2010, 11:03:24 pm »
... ummm.... i think the point is that people ARE judged on their sexual preferance. i had a friend attempt suicide because his entire family, the vast majority of the students at his school, AND most of the teachers ridiculed him because he is gay (this is in texas btw). he didnt tell me the whole story, he just said people kept f***ing with him by putting playboy, dil***s, and the bible in his desk and locker.
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Re: So hey, What's wrong with being Gay? https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=17336.msg224850#msg224850
« Reply #32 on: December 14, 2010, 11:08:58 pm »
It still doesn't give you license to be a jackass to somebody who hasn't done anything wrong. You want a surefire way to alienate your cause, that's it.

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Re: So hey, What's wrong with being Gay? https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=17336.msg224873#msg224873
« Reply #33 on: December 14, 2010, 11:33:06 pm »
QuantumT, while that type of a reaction should not be exhibited by either homosexual or heterosexual couples I do understand where they're coming from. Though don't get me wrong, you are right that you did them no wrong and deserved to enjoy your stay at the theatre.

It's hard for anyone to assume the rare case as standard. You are one of that other, smaller part of the population who can frankly and very respectfully say "Hey, I have no problems with you showing your affection for one another, and regardless of your sexual orientation I want to watch the movie without having any distractions. Thank you," which is respectable. However it's very easy for them to assume that you're just another one of those people that are absolutely disgusted with homosexual behaviour and it should be let known that they've probably already had a hard time to make it there and be with each other in the first place. They most likely receive no support from family, little from society and while heterosexual couples can rest easier showing their affection for each other at home, I can guarantee you that more homosexual couples, especially young ones, do not have the same luck.

It's sad to know that they reacted like that, and should by no means be expected from homosexual couples. And once again, though it's hard to assume the rare case, a peaceful reaction from homosexual couples, to be standard, one should consider the life of classical conditioning that constitute the lives of homosexual couples. They've suffered a lot but there is no need to take it out on others.

One day we will live in a world where that type of reaction ceases to be seen, because there will be one love, one from the soul and not solely from the body. Until then QuantumT, I trust you will continue to respect homosexual couples and I hope that if you encounter a PDA-happy couple, that it be a more understanding and respectful one than the one you encountered in that incident.
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Re: So hey, What's wrong with being Gay? https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=17336.msg224880#msg224880
« Reply #34 on: December 14, 2010, 11:47:42 pm »
I understand exactly why they behaved the way they did. There are limits to what I'm willing to justify for people though, and threats of violence just aren't acceptable (I'd be much more likely to just let it go if he had just yelled at me).

I guess I'm just hoping to communicate to homosexuals that not everyone is out to get you, and some of us are on your side.

As for what I'll do in the future, I'll continue to be polite about it. It would be rather hypocritical of me to get mad at them for making assumptions about me only to turn around and make assumptions about other homosexual couples. ;)

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Re: So hey, What's wrong with being Gay? https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=17336.msg224889#msg224889
« Reply #35 on: December 15, 2010, 12:01:22 am »
to answer the name of the topic: nothing
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as of PDA's... where's humankind heading to? How come affection, as of love, is a despicable behavior, while violence is largely accepted?

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