Ah, but you're ignoring OUR point.
If the bombers on 9/11 had done so representing the Muslim religion, then I would agree with you, no mosque anywhere near the site.
But Muslims didn't bomb us on 9/11.
The mosque is NOT our enemy.
And the analogy about "if christians bombed mecca" makes no sense because 9/11 was not caused by Muslims.
I said it before, and I'll say it again. 9/11 was caused by a Saudi Arabian power struggle. Osama Bin Ladin is a member of the Saudi Royal family, but he did not support the current leadership. He couldn't overthrow the leadership because the Saudi Arabian government had too many resources, fueled by American spending.
So he decided to get American's to stop paying for Saudi oil.
We were too ignorant to fall for his trap.
In summary, it is perfectly okay for a mosque by ground zero. Muslim's had nothing to do with it. If you wish to be respectful, stop driving cars by ground zero. Or stop driving cars in general. Because every drop of oil you use comes from the middle east, and it's used to fund armies on both sides, perpetuating a never ending war.
But that's too difficult of a concept to grasp, isn't it?
You'd much rather blame the Muslims.