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is it normal not to have real life friends https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=58909.msg1196967#msg1196967
« on: July 15, 2015, 03:27:12 pm »
i thought my life would change for the better once i get a job.

but apparently, on saturday and sundays when im not working,
im just surfing random forums that gives me attention.
my real life friends are all kinda busy with their work,
playing with girlfriends.

im just staying all day in house,
tired, watching anime, youtube music, movies. etc.
masturbating then back to forums.

my siblings dun stay at home and happily hanging out late
with his new friends, he just joined university.

in my fast paced country,
talking at work is usually difficult,
the manager will give you more jobs
when he sees you are free.

i dun feel lonely,
but i feel like im headed towards in a wrong direction.

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Re: is it normal not to have real life friends https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=58909.msg1196968#msg1196968
« Reply #1 on: July 15, 2015, 03:32:51 pm »
oh buddy.... looky here... i'm here as a friend when you need it, because i barely have any friend IRL myself, why don't you come into chat and we can talk about it eh? ;)
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Re: is it normal not to have real life friends https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=58909.msg1196975#msg1196975
« Reply #2 on: July 15, 2015, 03:59:23 pm »
Maybe you can join my Facebook group called "NEO Lone Wolves" for those who feel having almost no friend.

And for mods, can I post the link here?
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Re: is it normal not to have real life friends https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=58909.msg1196977#msg1196977
« Reply #3 on: July 15, 2015, 03:59:57 pm »
oh buddy.... looky here... i'm here as a friend when you need it, because i barely have any friend IRL myself, why don't you come into chat and we can talk about it eh? ;)

thanks for the duel, the chat is a nice place to stay at, and i will be wandering there at times  :)

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Re: is it normal not to have real life friends https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=58909.msg1196980#msg1196980
« Reply #4 on: July 15, 2015, 04:03:49 pm »
Maybe you can join my Facebook group called "NEO Lone Wolves" for those who feel having almost no friend.

And for mods, can I post the link here?
thanks for invitation  :)

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Re: is it normal not to have real life friends https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=58909.msg1196981#msg1196981
« Reply #5 on: July 15, 2015, 04:11:19 pm »
I was surprised to get such a really fast response, but after seeing your country flag, I think it does makes sense that both of us are online now.
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Re: is it normal not to have real life friends https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=58909.msg1196983#msg1196983
« Reply #6 on: July 15, 2015, 04:17:31 pm »
I was surprised to get such a really fast response, but after seeing your country flag, I think it does makes sense that both of us are online now.
i usually dun stay up that late, just finding it difficult to sleep tonight.

apparently elements forum have been giving the most responses  :-*

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Re: is it normal not to have real life friends https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=58909.msg1196984#msg1196984
« Reply #7 on: July 15, 2015, 04:18:44 pm »
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im just surfing random forums that gives me attention.
my real life friends are all kinda busy with their work,
playing with girlfriends.

You already have real life friends. They're just busy during weekends, which is normal. Make some effort and you can arrange to go out as well.

If you have enough people known to you that you can say "my real life friends are busy" then trust me, you have real friends.

You don't have friends when you know absolutely nothing about what's happening with anyone besides yourself and you truly have zero chance to go out the weekend or similar. And I've been there, so I know how it is. If you can say "my real life friends are all kinda busy" --

You have friends

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Re: is it normal not to have real life friends https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=58909.msg1196985#msg1196985
« Reply #8 on: July 15, 2015, 04:21:42 pm »
Quote
im just surfing random forums that gives me attention.
my real life friends are all kinda busy with their work,
playing with girlfriends.

You already have real life friends. They're just busy during weekends, which is normal. Make some effort and you can arrange to go out as well.

If you have enough people known to you that you can say "my real life friends are busy" then trust me, you have real friends.

You don't have friends when you know absolutely nothing about what's happening with anyone besides yourself and you truly have zero chance to go out the weekend or similar. And I've been there, so I know how it is. If you can say "my real life friends are all kinda busy" --

You have friends
i haven't go out with anyone of them since i got a job which is about quite several months ago,
ye they are still real life friends, but i can already feel them drifting away when they dun like to chat with me online anymore.

(six months ago to be exact.)

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Re: is it normal not to have real life friends https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=58909.msg1196986#msg1196986
« Reply #9 on: July 15, 2015, 04:22:19 pm »
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im just surfing random forums that gives me attention.
my real life friends are all kinda busy with their work,
playing with girlfriends.

You already have real life friends. They're just busy during weekends, which is normal. Make some effort and you can arrange to go out as well.

If you have enough people known to you that you can say "my real life friends are busy" then trust me, you have real friends.

You don't have friends when you know absolutely nothing about what's happening with anyone besides yourself and you truly have zero chance to go out the weekend or similar. And I've been there, so I know how it is. If you can say "my real life friends are all kinda busy" --

You have friends
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Re: is it normal not to have real life friends https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=58909.msg1196988#msg1196988
« Reply #10 on: July 15, 2015, 04:27:59 pm »
i haven't go out with anyone of them since i got a job which is about quite several months ago,
ye they are still real life friends, but i can already feel them drifting away when they dun like to chat with me online anymore.

(six months ago to be exact.)

Rather than "friends", I would just call them "workmate".
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Re: is it normal not to have real life friends https://elementscommunity.org/forum/index.php?topic=58909.msg1196990#msg1196990
« Reply #11 on: July 15, 2015, 04:33:15 pm »
i haven't go out with anyone of them since i got a job which is about quite several months ago,
ye they are still real life friends, but i can already feel them drifting away when they dun like to chat with me online anymore.

(six months ago to be exact.)

Rather than "friends", I would just call them "workmate".
no they are more like schoolmates from my secondary school and poly schools,
my english can be confusing at times, lol.

when working in my country,
talking is kinda looked upon as slacking
 although it depends on your job though.
so even if you tried to talk to your workmates,
they will try to avoid you.

 

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